BBQ Feng Shui: Part Two
Recap: Part One addressed the situation of setting up a really boss BBQ area in the backyard only to have proximity issues with a new neighbor.
As Paul Harvey used to say:
“Now for the rest of the story…”
Got the table-

Got the BBQ kettle-

Got a lovely setting-

Yes-it was a No Go for the BBQ area because of the neighbors.
They had moved in right after we had arranged everything and set up their living space so close to ours it was going to be awkward to hang out in our backyard.
Plus, wanting to be good neighbors we accommodated their needs to raise a family so we moved the BBQ grill around to the other side of the yard and forwent using the cozy cafe corner so diligently decorated. The magnificent fern in the background (an annual volunteer) clinched the Feng Shui vibe and we were sad to forego the Feng Shui. We abandoned all of it for the sake of the neighbors.
Granted, we still used our backyard, and unfortunately we got into the habit of peeking over towards the neighbors before we utilized our yard. Just trying to be considerate but maybe our intentions were misunderstood.
I thought we were coexisting pretty well until we noticed it was pretty quiet on our neighbors side.
Then we realized overnight the neighbors had disappeared. Just like that. Barely a month in residence and vanished.
We wondered if it was something we did or said and then we realized that it really comes down to location, location, location.
And our new neighbors must have decided to raise their family in a more private area.
I have to say though they did overstep their sense of boundaries as I did catch them sometimes cutting through our yard.

Yes, our new neighbors were a pair of Pee Wees—no relationship to Herman. Delightfully cute little birds who decided to build their nest on top of a utility ledge just above our outdoor dining area.

Mama bird diligently stayed nest bound for a couple of weeks and though we tried to be courteous and reduce our backyard use our birdie neighbors abandoned their efforts to set up their family.
Now that they are gone we miss their presence. Isn’t that how it goes? Something that was once inconvenient becomes favorably reflected upon once absent? I haven’t seen them around in the neighborhood. I do hope their new place worked out for them.
Have you ever had to readjust your lifestyle to accommodate a bird nest?



















