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How Cliché: Liking those “L” phrases


Lots of lovely “L” phrases coming your way…

Labor of love: to do something for the joy of doing so instead of doing so for personal gain. This phrase is found in the New Testament in Hebrews 6:10 and in Thessalonians 1:3. Both scriptures refer to those who labor in the name of God, doing so in love.

Lame duck: someone finishing out their term of office who will be replaced soon. Originally in 18th century Britain a broker who could not pay his debts were crossed off the membership and they would “waddle away” in shame. Moving to the USA in the 19th century the term was applied to congressmen who were not reelected yet had to serve out their term. perhaps causing them to “waddle away” in shame of losing their job.

Larger than life: appearing to be real. The original saying is from the Latin expression ad vivum, or “to the life.” In the 18th century the phrase appears, the 1799 Lame Jervas: “I see the puppets, the wheelbarrows, everything as large as life.” Other writers, such as Lewis Carroll and George Bernard Shaw began using the expression.

Last but not least: perhaps last but not not least in importance. It’s thought John Lyly originated the expression when he said, “Of these three but one can stand me in steede, the last, but not the least” in his 1580 Euphues and His England. It was also used by Shakespeare in his plays, including Julius Caesar and King Lear.

Last ditch effort: a desperate final attempt. In the 17th century the military term for last ditch applied to the last trench of defense. The 18th century saw the term used by Thomas Jefferson who said, “A government driven to the last ditch by the universal call for liberty.”

To lay an egg: to fail in an embarrassing manner. If a player or team does not score in the British game of cricket then a duck’s egg or zero is earned. Transfer this concept to America’s vaudeville and theater days when a performance failed to please the crowd or when a business fails the idea of laying an egg is applied, or in other words, an zero is achieved.

Left hand doesn’t know what the right hand is doing: taking an action that might indicate less than full knowledge. In Mathew 6:3 the passage indicates that a person should do good quietly instead of publicizing their action, basically keeping the action secret. Over time the secret aspect has taken to mean one department’s or organization’s action indicates a contrary action to another department’s or organization’s efforts, perhaps to the point of adding confusion or inefficiency to a situation.

Left-handed compliment: a statement that seems like praise, but is actually a disguised insult. Marriages between royalty and a commoner is known as morganatic and the ceremony involved the groom (the royal) giving the bride (the commoner) his left hand instead of his right as was done in conventional marriages. *This brings up the issue of the left hand being considered the “lesser” of the hands, which harkens back to superstitions about being left-handed.

Let one’s hair down: to behave informally, without constraint. Back in the day when women wore their hair up, the idea of wearing their hair loose and down around their shoulders was considered a breach of societal protocol. A woman let her hair down only in the privacy of her bedroom. P.G. Wodehouse had fun with this in his 1933 Heavy Weather: “We can take our hair down and tell each other our right names.” *I’m wondering why this only applied to men…

Let the cat out of the bag: to reveal a secret. In old-time open air markets people would purchase their goods and carry them home in bags and baskets. There existed the shady practice of placing a cat in the bag instead of the purchased pig. When the person got home the truth was revealed when the cat was let out of the bag.

There are lots of “L” phrases left. The one that surprised me most was the cat in the bag. I will probably think of pigs whenever I hear a secret revealed from now on.

Reader Roundup: September


Fall into reading. I think that was on a poster in the workroom of the library I worked in years ago. A book is fanned open and a child willingly, with a smile of joyful expectation, dives into the book. Falling into the adventure of reading is how I view the books I bring home.

Falling into reading takes on a different meaning as warm summer days morph into crispy cold mornings and evenings. The sun is is out but a light jacket is needed to stem off the occasional breeze. Reading outside in my hammock is diminishing as the days are often cloudy. I’m hoping October still has a few nice days for al fresco reading.

Overall the month held a diversity of good reads ranging from nonfiction to spy thrillers to historical mysteries.
Here are my five star reads for September: ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️

What It’s Like to be a Bird: From Flying to Nesting, to Eating to Dinging—What Birds Are Doing, and Why by David Allen Sibley

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Having been brought up on Audubon’s field guides and turning to Cornell’s website for research and guidance, I’ve missed out on Sibley’s contribution to birding. What a find!

This book is a fine place for beginners to start or it is lovely visit for those familiar with birds. The illustrations are captivating and the info bits and trivia create a special experience. If I had a coffee table this book would be the prominent feature.

The Cat Who Could Read Backwards by Lilian Jackson Braun

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Having heard about this cozy cat series for some time I finally decided to try out the first one. Even though the sixties attitude is a bit off-putting with its gender roles, the mystery itself is surprisingly engaging. KoKo the cat is definitely the star of the show. Looking forward to the next book in the series.

The Minor Adjustment Beauty Salon by Alexander McCall Smith

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McCall Smith is back on track with this 14th installment to his No. 1 Ladies Detective series. He presents a combination of intriguing cases and interpersonal situations that harken back to earlier successes. The characters are changing and growing which keeps the plot fresh: Grace has her baby, Charlie begins to grow up, JLB attempts to become a “modern man”. Yet, Precious changes little, remaining content being “traditionally built” and remaining reflective as she approaches life and her cases.

Above Suspicion by Helen MacInnes

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A spy thriller that is reminiscent of the old 1940s films (apparently this book became a film)—very 39 Steps in its “innocents-getting-involved-in-dangerous-espionage” plot. Set just prior to Germany invading Poland when Europe was on edge, a British couple is enlisted to locate an agent. They are to pose as typical vacationers, but become entrapped by the Nazi machinations when they attempt to complete their mission. Characterization of British, Americans, and Germans are evident, without being stereotypical. The author also provides strong opinions about the “new Germany” and how far various nations will go to prevent another war.

Considering the book was published in 1941 it is almost prescient some of the outcome in the story. As a side note, the author’s husband served in MI-6, which no doubt lends an authenticity to her action.

Swan Light by Phoebe Rowe

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Switching between 1913 and 2014, the saga of Swan Light, a lighthouse, is unfolded with impressive detail and lyrical energy. Silvestre Swan, at 83 years, has tended the lighthouse since its inception. His days are intertwined with it to the point of a symbiotic relationship. Yet, there is no record of Swan Light. Mari is a driven marine archeologist who is hired by a wealthy, (rumored to be 100+ years) to find the lighthouse that disappeared. This is a fascinating story of goals lost and found, of the past reluctantly revealed, and of the present celebrated. An impressive debut that has the elements of family drama, a heist movie, and a light romance.

As much as I enjoy reading by a cozy fire with a cup of cocoa nearby, I am so reluctant to give up reading outside and will strive to bundle and enjoy my remaining sunny days as long as I can.

Are you an outside or an inside reader?

Bard Bits: Shaking the Bacon


Shakespeare. An enigma in my mind when I found out he was a rooted fixture in our English curriculum. He was just a name since I had never encountered a play or a sonnet during my formative schooling and was only vaguely aware that he wrote Romeo and Juliet, which I watched in the theatre in junior high. I had doubts about this English guy from Stratford. Who was he? If I had to teach his plays I needed to understand his background. The problem being is that the more I researched, the less credible Shakespeare became. Not much is known about his childhood, less about his schooling, and then there are those missing years before becoming cited as an “upstart crow.”

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However, over time I uncovered more information, learned more than the standard school fare of Romeo and Juliet and Julius Caesar and decided Shakespeare was amazing. I converted to a Bardinator and earned the reputation as the Shakespeare Lady at school.

Then my world rocked.

I learned there were those who did not believe Shakespeare wrote all those plays, sonnets, and penned 1,700 words into use. I learned of the Baconians and the Stratfordians (and a couple of other theory players). I watched the documentaries. I became irritated. I even became outraged (eh–more like really, really annoyed). I found it incredulous that people spent time decoding Shakespeare’s work to find anagrams, cryptic messages, and the like in order to prove/disprove Shakespeare’s authenticity.

I finally had to step away. I finally took on the David Tennant approach:

To care or not to care–that’s the real question.

What about you?

A. Yes, Shakespeare wrote everything.

B. No, Shakespeare’s authorship is one of those mystery conspiracies.

C. Sorry, I suffer from Shakespism (hives at the mention of his name)

Word Nerds: words that I like but will doubtfully ever use


I used to collect stars. I built a wooden box and as I came across stars in everyday life I put them in the box. This was in college and it was a small box because I lived in small spaces and moved often. The point is that I collected stars because I liked them. Then one day I realized that I rarely used my collection. They simply sat in my box being appreciated.

Stars are special

I no longer have my star box and it’s contents. I do, though, collect words. And the same thing is happening: I appreciate them but rarely use all that I collect. Granted, some words manage to find their way into my everyday lexicon; however, most are just appreciated and acknowledged when I do come across them.

I hope my honesty is not off-putting.

Here is a list of words I have tucked away in my word nerd collection, and after some true reflection I realize it’s doubtful I will ever use them. I pass them to you as a gift. Enjoy.


agelast: a person who never laughs; a humorless person (often used attributively).

aggrandize: increase
outré: bizarre
soi-disant: self-proclaimed
perfidy: treachery
inculcate: to teach by frequent repetition
solipsistic: extreme egocentrism
froideur: extreme reserve in manner

badinage: light, playful banter

evince: to make evident; show clearly

sartorial: of or relating to clothing or style or manner of dress

olykoek: doughnut

risible: capable of causing laughter; ludicrous

Which word gift are you going to select? And if none of these appeal to you I totally understand. But they are pretty, aren’t they?

A Falling Out Begins


One absolutely appreciated bonus of retirement is enjoying the mellow fall sunshine. I call September weather my Goldilock Days: not too hot, not too cold—just right.

Previous to retirement (this is my second September!) I would look out of my classroom window and long to be outside. That was one commonality I shared with my students. Although I would try to tie up loose ends and get home to enjoy the remaining afternoon, I usually arrived home only to enjoy a sliver of sun before it slipped behind the mountain. My Verilux light is a poor substitute for that warm, comforting kiss of sunlight.

And so, in these fall days, these post-summer days, these halcyon days of retirement I am found sunning like a marmot on my morning patio, napping on my hammock early afternoon, and lounging on my other hammock in the late afternoon.

Lest you think all I do is lounge around, I am landscaping, cleaning, writing, reading, and stacking wood throughout the day.

Unfortunately my Goldilocks time is ending. I used to go for my morning walk by 7 am. Lately it’s 49 degrees at that time and the sun is barely up. By 9 am it’s 60 degrees which is acceptable. Just as the perfect temps of mid-seventies arrive the cold nights appear. By 6 pm there is a chill that sends me inside.

Nothing says summer is ending more than the delivery of our winter wood supply. I feel the calendar days tick down when those wood chunks fill the bins.

Two cords strong

One aspect of full wood bins is knowing I will be cozy warm by the fire reading books and sipping cocoa. For now I’m still reveling in late summer before I fall into winter.

How Cliché: Oh “K”


handle with kid gloves: to treat very gently. Dating back to the nineteenth century this term refers to gloves made from young goats, known as kidskin. These gloves were considered fine wear and the wearer needed to treat them with care.

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Kill the goose that lays the golden eggs: destroy a source of wealth through neglect. In one of Aesop’s fables a greedy farmer owns a fabulous goose that lays golden eggs. Wanting as many eggs as possible he believed that all the eggs were inside the goose. Killing the goose did not provide the eggs–he only gained a dinner entrée.

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Kill two birds with one stone: to achieve two goals with a single effort. The saying goes back to Roman times when a person would be commended for killing two birds with a single rock. The saying was also traced to the 1600s when a writer by the name of Hobbes wrote, “”T.H. thinks to kill two birds with one stone, and satisfy two arguments with one answer.”

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Kill with kindness: to overwhelm someone with goodness. The original saying is thought to be, “to kill with kindness as fond apes do their young” is alluding to how an ape might squeeze its young in a smothering embrace of love. The saying moved forward in the sixteenth century and was used by Byron who said, “Don’t let them kill you with claret and kindness.”

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Kiss and tell: to betray a secret. Restoration England’s Charles Cotton is credited with saying, “And if he needs must kiss and tell, I’ll kick him headlong into Hell.” The expression has been used often in both literature and films, and even in everyday life.

The whole kit and caboodle: all of it. The word “caboodle” is thought to be related to the Dutch word “boedel” which means “household goods and possessions.” And “kit” means personal belongings. However, the Oxford English Dictionary says caboodle is an incorrect version of “kit and boodle.” Whatever it means, if someone says “grab your kit and caboodle” just grab your stuff and get going.

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Knight in shining armor: someone who is a rescuer. Dashing knights. Chivalry. Rescuing damsels. That’s what the expression brings to mind, right? That is the literal sense, probably dating from the sixteenth century. The figurative sense is about finding “Mr. Right,” that standout guy that fits a girl’s dream of her hero. Is the saying still being used?

image: Medieval Bride

Knock someone down with a feather: to overcome a person with surprise. This goes back to the nineteenth century and appeared in print in Wiliam Cobbett’s Rural Rides “You might have knocked me down with a feather.”

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Knock on wood: a means of avoiding bad luck. In Great Britain touching wood is based on a superstition based on the saying “touch wood, it’s sure to come good.”

BONUS:

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To knuckle under: relenting under pressure. There are different thoughts on this one. It might stem from knocking under the table when someone has lost an argument. “Knuckles” also refers to the end of any bone at the end of a joint. “To knuckle” originally meant “to bend down” or “stoop” and was related to the phrase “to comply with” or “submit to.” So–either a person literally raps their bones in defeat or figuratively bends down in defeat.

That ends the “k” clichés. Did I miss any?

Word Nerds: words that mean this not that


Granted, some words can eventually change meaning over time; however, some words are just plain used incorrectly and we may not realize it. Here is a batch of words that you may or may not be using correctly. I now know the enormity of my vernacular errors and hope they will no longer be chronic mistakes.

atrociousness not hugeness
overflowing not repetitive
imitation not tragedy
continual not severe
unbiased versus not interested
i.e.= id est ,”that is” (in other words)
e.g.= exempli gratia, “for example)
saying one thing but implying something else not an odd coincidence
read carefully not skim or glance

Book Signing!


Sunday, September 10th is Grandparents Day. Last year I booked a signing at Barnes and Noble at it was so successful I’m going back this year.

Mmm, I’m a bit younger

If you are in the Spokane Valley, Washington area this Saturday be sure to stop by the Barnes and Noble. After story time at 11 am I will be signing books until 3pm.

If you can’t make it you can purchase a book from your favorite online source and let me know and I will send you an autographed book plate.

Celebrating somedays!

Someday We Will celebrates that special connection between grandparents and grandchildren. The book was inspired by my visits with my granddaughter. I couldn’t wait for all those special somedays we would share together.

My frames are red—but I don’t think the illustrator knew that!

And my second grandchild is due for her debut coming up the end of this month! I can’t wait to read my book with her.

Hoping you have a special day with your grands!

Surprise find on the internet!

Reader Roundup: August


August around my parts is a combination of 90+ heat and smoke saturation creating one to two weeks of limited outside adventures. Fortunately I had a stack of really good reads to pass the the time. These are ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ ⭐️ reads.

Wink by Rob Harrell

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Kid cancer stories. Usually maudlin, right? Not so with Wink. The author, basing Wink on his personal experience with eye cancer, creates an uplifting story of seventh grader Ross who must cope with not only dealing with all that goes with cancer treatments, but he also faces friendship schisms, bullying, crush disappointment, along with the usual angst of being a middle schooler.

The Leopard is Loose by Stephen Harriman

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The Leopard Is Loose is a surprise read. The cover seems deceptively simple more suited to a juvenile read than a novel that reexamines a childhood trauma through the perception of an adult. The narrative is from a seventy year old man remembering the summer when as a five year old a leopard escaped from the town’s zoo. The loose leopard becomes a working metaphor as it represents a threat to the security to young Grady as does other aspects such as the volatile personality of his Uncle Frank who suffers from PTSD from his WWII experiences. Then there is the possibility of his widowed mother marrying which would mean moving away from all Grady has known. The author is deftly able to capture events and describe situations through the eyes of a five year old, yet embellish the unfolding with the perception of an adult looking back with gained knowledge and wisdom.

Wool by Hugh Howey

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A success story certainly deserves attention. Hugh Howey’s feat of shaking up the e-publish world with his short story and then the subsequent editions, proves ingenuity still survives. A unique dystopian idea where people live in underground silos as “seed” for better times definitely garners praise. While there are some plot holes as to how these people are able to successfully live from generation to generation as a self-functioning society, it’s the interpersonal connections that makes the long hike through the 500 page Omnibus so mesmerizing.

I read it eight years later after watching the Amazon series. After watching Rebecca Ferguson’s interpretation of Juliette I decided to reread the book. I wasn’t eager to revisit the story, remembering how it was difficult to fully get involved in the setting—a community living in a giant silo for how many generations? Yet, the story riveted me the second time because the series helped me visualize it this time around. Rebecca captured well Juliette’s plucky determination and most of the plot was covered.It’s a case of the book is the book and the movie is the movie.

I do suggest watching the series first and then reading the book. Shocking, I know. But it did change my rating from a four to a five.

Lab Girl by Hope Jahren

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Lab Girl is a hybrid of a scientist’s insights about plant life and a revealing memoir that reveals the soul of poet who happens to be quite adept with the workings of a lab. She’s built three of them so it’s not surprising that Hope Jahren is recognized (by many, despite how she reckons women scientists don’t get all the credit due them) as a scientist of merit. Jahren’s intertwining vignettes, like the tree rings she fondly refers to, form her memoir, one that eloquently and at times is profoundly lyrical as she shares with her readers her unique perspective of seeing science through an English literature lens.

S by JJ Abrams and Doug Dorst

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With JJ Abrams listed as author I knew The Ship of Theseus would go where no book reader has gone before. Yes, his directorial credits of Star Trek and Lost are on full dial. However, Abrams is more of a show runner than author for this meta fiction wonderment. The writing credit goes to Doug Dorst, who may not be as well known yet proves he is a talented writer.

There are two novels. The first is The Ship of Theseus (SOT) which is an enigmatic tale of an amnesiac who sails kim with a gruesome crew and is tasked with ridding the world of a despotic autocrat. And our hero (antihero?) searches for the woman he deems as the key to his identity (as well as his heart).

The second novel consists of two college students. Jen has serious senioritis and Eric is an expunged grad student living in the shadows of the campus while he tries to complete research on VM Straka, the mysterious writer of SOT. These two tell their story through marginalia that first consists of their interactions and interpretations of SOT which leads to a friendship that blossoms into a relationship. As they trade ideas they reveal an undercurrent of espionage, intrigue, and conspiracy that is involved with Straka.

This not your usual read. While there is great effort to create a real book, library markings, aged pages, etc. it is all false. It is the illusion that there is a Straka, a conspiracy, two readers who literally get caught up in the book. It is very impressive and visually a treat. It is an experience and not merely another good read chalk mark on my Reading Challenge.

Oh, and the book contains over 20 inserts ranging from newspaper clippings to postcards to a decoder wheel. I enjoyed all the reviews, fan sites, and analysis about the book almost as much as reading it.

image: this book is full of surprises

Bard Bits: Shakespeare Said That?


William Shakespeare’s writing has provided some fairly memorable quotes, words, and expressions. While Billy Bard can take credit for most of what is tagged with his name, he doesn’t quite get all the credit.

Let’s play “How Well Do You Know Your Shakespeare?” You will be given two quotes. One or both quotes are presented. Decide which, or both, belong to Shakespeare.

1.A. “Bated Breath”
B. “Breathlessly Waiting”

2. A. “A Blinking Idiot”
B. “Foolish Ninny”

3. A. “Take Your Last Breath”
B. “Breathe One’s Last”

4.A. “Give Them An Inch”
B. “Budge An Inch”

5.A. “The Crack Of Dawn”
B. “The Crack of Doom”

6. A. “Kindness Is A Cruelty”
B. “Cruel To Be Kind”

7. A. “Fortune’s Fool”
B. “A Fool And Their Fortune Is Soon Parted”

  1. “Bated Breath” from The Merchant of Venice, 1.3.115-116, 123-129
  2. “A Blinking Idiot” also from The Merchant of Venice, 2.9.54-62
  3. “Breathe’s One Last” from Henry VI, 5.2.39-42
  4. “Budge an Inch” from Taming of the Shrew, induction.1.7-15
  5. “The Crack of Doom” Macbeth, 4.1.112-117
  6. “Cruel to be Kind,” Hamlet, 3.4.173-179
  7. “Fortune’s Fool,” Romeo and Juliet, 3.1.132-136

Bonus:

Who said “A fool and his money (fortune) will soon be parted?

Answer: Dr. John Bridges from Defence of the Government of the Church of England, 1587

And what was your score?

Next time–sayings Shakespeare really, really did not say…

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